Timing is everything, they say.
That’s what crossed my mind last week as I read the deeply absorbing new novel by Sue Monk Kidd, “The Invention of Wings.”
As controversy swirled over LA Clippers owner Donald Sterling’s racist comments … and as the Jewish community observed Holocaust Remembrance Week … I was engrossed in a story about the daughter of a slave owner and her 35-year relationship with a slave.
This historical fiction was inspired by the real-life Sarah Grimké, a woman born into privilege in ante-bellum Charleston, who knew from an early age that slavery was wrong and grew up to become one of the first women and best-known abolitionists of her time.
It is not only a richly compelling story of relationships between complex people, but also a devastating reminder of what life was like before slaves were emancipated and this horrible time in our history came to an end.
We have evolved as a nation since then, but we still have work to do.
Racism Can Not Be Tolerated
Personally, I am elated that the NBA came out forcefully with severe sanctions against Sterling for his comments. But whether or not you agree with the NBA’s ruling, no one can deny that Sterling’s rant was racist and hate-based. There is no excuse for that. Ever.
Prejudice Has No Place in Society
Congress established the Days of Remembrance as the nation’s annual commemoration of the Holocaust. and to remind all of us what can happen to civilized people when bigotry, hatred and apathy are allowed to flourish.
We say “never again.” But what does that really mean?
Racism, prejudice, genocide, other atrocities happen when we fail to take action.
In “The Invention of Wings,” Sarah’s voice was stifled, both literally and figuratively. Forced to watch the violence inflicted against slaves, she lost the ability to speak without stuttering. When she grew older and escaped the confines of her home, she ventured north to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and became enamored of the Religious Society of Friends, or Quakers, a peace-seeking religious group that openly denounced slavery. And from there, she became a spokesperson for abolition.
The Philadelphia Quaker connection had special meaning for me. My children all attended Quaker schools. In fact, my son’s Commencement took place in the Arch Street Meeting House, the very site that played a prominent role in “The Invention of Wings.”
The Arch Street Meeting House, Philadelphia, Pa.
To Eradicate Bigotry, We Need to Confront It
If there is a silver lining to the cloud of Sterling’s diatribe, it is the conversation that has sprung from it, and hopefully will continue.
And that’s why “The Invention of Wings” should be read and discussed. Never again, we say. Let us understand, and let us take action.
Fans of Sue Monk Kidd (you may have read her best-selling “The Secret Life of Bees”) and of historical fiction will not want to miss this book. It is a superb choice for book groups, and this detailed readers guide is a terrific resource to facilitate a discussion.
The Invention of Wings Book Club Kit
One of my lucky readers will receive a free copy of “The Invention of Wings.” Please leave a comment below and I will select a random winner.
Disclosure: I received a complimentary copy of “The Invention of Wings” from Viking/Penguin for an honest review. I did not receive any other compensation.
You’re right–it is a timely book. Sad to say. I guess some still have a hard time with the concept of racism and I don’t know why.
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Thanks, Carol. A conundrum, for sure.
Love your review Helene!
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This sounds like a terrific book. I became aware of Sarah Grimké just a few years ago and it seems like she should be more widely known.
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I had never heard of her, Joy. I am intrigued to learn more. Thanks for stopping by!
“The Secret Life of Bees” is one of my favorite books ever, and I can’t wait to read this one. It sounds fascinating and, yes, sadly, timely. I agree with you that it’s good we get all of this out in the open and talk about it and make people aware. That’s the power of a good book — and this definitely sounds like one.
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You are so right, Lois. Thank you!
Oh, I want this book! It sounds like I will love it, and will read it whether I win it or not!
Unfortunately hatred is everywhere, and anti-semitism is again rising. NEVER AGAIN is what we pass onto our children and someday – who knows when – people will look at one another with love and respect.
My “Secret Life of Bees” story: Years ago we flew to FL to meet Gary’s family for my in-laws anniversary, including Gary’s grandmother (in her 90’s) and his brother & family who live in AZ. We were to stay at Marco’s Island. But my son got pneumonia, and I stayed behind at my in-laws condo to care for him while they all went to the island for a few days. My son slept most of the day and night, so I was feeling badly for my son and a little sad, but alone with my book, “The Secret Life of Bees.” I felt those women were my friends, my companions, and when it was over I felt so sad. I can still feel that sadness. That is the sign of a good book, and one I will never forget. So thank you, Sue Monk Kidd!
Great review, Helene! Great weaving topical events with it, as well.
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I love that memory, Cathy (not that I love that your son was sick). Yes, you have to read this book, too!
It just boggles the mind that there is still so much racism and hate in the world, doesn’t it?
This book has been on my list for a while – now I have to read it for sure.
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It does boggle the mind, Sharon, I agree.
Racism is a very sad thing, and the ones that go along with it are just plain bigots. They are so stubborn that they refuse to accept anyone who has an opinion, creed or any belief that differs from theirs.
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Bigotry is such an ugly thing, isn’t it?
I struggled with this book and put it down several times. It was a bad patch in reading for me, I was arguing with several books. I liked it less than Bees or the Help, but like you say it is timely and a reminder that we can never take for granted that anti fill in the blank is extinguished or acceptable.
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Thanks, Haralee. There were definitely parts of the book that were difficult to read.
Someone just mentioned this book to me too. Great review, Helene. It’s on my list!
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That’s great, Linda!
It’s almost unbelievable to me that racism still exists this day in age. I actually find it hard to think that it ever did to be honest.
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I wish we were further evolved than we are. Thanks, Robin.
What an interesting mash up of events.
I had wondered what you thought of the Sterling event. I’ve felt confused..knowing what he said was racist and wrong, and thinking about that he said it in the privacy of his home.
Days of memory and good books and really knowing people as people I suppose can help each of us get over the narrow walled places we can climb into
I’m looking for a good read..so I’ll throw my comment in the ring and maybe I’ll win!
Thanks, Cyd.
This whole conversation about the book and about Sterling brings to mind the whole conversation about the Holocaust. It was drummed into our heads when we were young that we must remember so it never happens again and we all would say to each other that it COULD never happen again. Then over time we’d hear of people claiming the Holocaust never happened and recently in the Ukraine pamphlets were passed out to Jews telling them they had to register themselves and their property. So ultimately, no matter how far we’ve come in general as a society, these conversations are relevant and must continue.
So true, Karen. The conversation must continue.
Hi Helene! Such a powerful book about racism and sexism–both concepts that have made a “bit” of progress but we have so very far yet to go! I saw Sue Monk Kidd interviewed by Oprah and knew I wanted to read this book. Thanks for the reminder. ~Kathy
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I wish I had seen that interview. Thanks, Kathy.
I love reading your book reviews, Helene, and I know I will love this book as well. Adding it to my list!
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I think you will enjoy it, Sheryl. Thanks!
Sounds like a book that my mother in law would enjoy. I will have to email her the title!
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That’s great, Amy, thanks!
What a great review! Keep them up.
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Thanks!
What a great review. I am always on the look out for new books to share and read
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This one is definitely one I would recommend.
Sad to say that racism and prejudice are still a a part of our society.
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So true, Veronica.
I have been dying to read this book! It’s cool that you’ve been to some of the places used in the book, I love it when that happens.
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It was such a great read!
Yes, we need to make this part of a national discussion. Thanks, Scott.
At least not publicly!
Sounds like you would definitely enjoy this book, Amber.
I am going right now to buy this from Amazon. I read her first book and this one sounds so powerful. You’re absolutely right in that racism should never be tolerated. My children are biracial and the subject is near and dear to my heart. Thank you.
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This is a powerful book, Liz, and will have special meaning for you. Thanks so much for your comment.
Thanks for the great review. I love hearing about new books to read!
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Great, Tess, I hope you read it and enjoy it!
Interesting book.. I am too tied up with the pile of books that I really wanted to read these days. As for racism, it’s too sad that it exist.
Thanks for your comment, Mel.
Thanks, Healy!
Race issues are still stong today and it truly makes me sad that people can’t pull their big people panties up and get along with each other.
I wouldn’t mind winning, this sounds like a really great book! It is also very important to read and learn about these stories from the past – history will repeat itself if you pretend it never happened in the first place.
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Very true, Megan. Thanks for stopping by!
I love books that address these issues in society in a way that is engaging for readers.
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Yes. it’s the best way to learn about history, I think.
The Secret Life of Bees is one of my favorite books. If this is the same author, I definitely want to read it!
That’s great, Mel!
I have never read about this before – but seems like a great one to add on my book reading list.
Aisha Kristine Chong recently posted…Trends: What to Avoid and How to Work Them into Your Wardrobe
Definitely, Aisha. Thanks!
I love to read. I have about 20 print books and about 40 ebooks waiting for me. If only I had enough hours in the day to read as much as I’d like.
I am soooo with you on that, Valerie!
I am sure this is a great book but I have never had any interest in anything history. My husband and boys all are history buffs and I am the oddball and prefer other things. When it comes to reading, I much prefer just reading for pleasure.
Thanks for your comment, Jennifer!
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